I was seen first as having a disability and this person named Lucia was just along for the ride.
But that can be a mixed bag because facial attraction is so subjective, plus I’m no Brad Pitt.After that, the hope has been to use my personality to charm them and get some chemistry going.While people with disabilities do enjoy being active there are going to be certain limitations that need to be taken into consideration. Do not make the assumption that wheelchair users are not involved in sports.Rock climbing will not be making the list for the majority of wheelchair users. Many wheelchair uses enjoy playing in community leagues designed specifically for them.He was the first relationship that I could see a future with, and talks about marriage came across often.
One of the reasons why I will never forget my ex-boyfriend of four years is because he looked at me like a person. Actually, he never mentioned the disability, but I felt compelled to bring it up as we got to know one another.Are you questioning whether or not dating someone with a disability is right for you? There are things in your lifestyle that need to be taken into consideration before making that leap.Disabilities and diseases come in all forms and level of severity. It’s better to take an upfront approach and ask direct questions to the person you’re interested in about your curiosities. Are you all about extreme sports and climbing Mount Everest?It’s also their loss for not giving me a chance, but still.So where physical appearances fall short the hope is that my looks and smile draw them in instead.(As new readers come across this post please keep in mind that I wrote it almost three years ago and my overall outlook on the topic as well as a number of related circumstances in my life have changed, as you can read after the post and in the comments below.