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Even though as a whole society has become more accepting of homosexuality, it’s still surprisingly difficult for high quality, single men to find help and advice in their search for a life partner.I’d get inquiries and questions all the time from gay friends and associates, wondering if I could match them or give them styling or dating advice.Take a recent statistic like this for example: did you know that a whopping 88% of all single gay men are actively searching for a romantic partner?That means there are more of you who are commitment-minded than who aren’t. The solution to that is less complicated than you might think too, and mostly it has to do with not being afraid to break out of your social circle and meet new people, not with anything that’s specifically “wrong” or “lacking” about you. " stop and ask yourself "Why are you always justifying your way out of dating? Dating from the perspective of "it's all about sex" can pay off if that's how you truly feel.
Think of it this way: If you can step out of the closet, you can certainly step out of your rut! It's you being truly you, so let your authentic self shine. If every date you go on with a gay guy leads you to say, "He was nice, but ... Well, it depends on your position — no pun intended.And while perhaps a gay single might go about finding a partner differently than someone who is straight, the ultimate outcome is the same.Given that, my first bit of advice is for everyone, no matter which side of the plate they swing from: Don’t Overcomplicate Things!Because even if you manage to get yourself asked out on all the dates you can handle, you still need to overcome your shyness if you want to actually turn those dates into something more.To help you out, here are a few first date tips shy gay men can use to build confidence when and where it counts.Being a shy guy makes dating difficult, to say the least.