You think insecurity and low confidence are only for those who are fat, bald and ugly? Just because a woman is hot does not mean that her life is perfect. It's simply one thing about a woman that she literally wears on her sleeve. Obviously, in the first five seconds, she judges a man based on his looks.
If I had four men approach me using the same, tried-and-tested pickup line, do you think I would be attracted to all four of them? I can tell you that if the right man with the right character came up to me and said "banana, banana, banana," I would giggle like a little schoolgirl and instantly feel attraction for him. Women want to be approached, as long as it's by the right person.
When it comes to meeting women, dating coach Marni Kinrys has a word of advice for men: Ignore dating advice and just be yourself.
When I sat down for a Skype date with Jet and Star of the Wing Girls, it was not long before I realized that the dolled up duo before me–dressed in red, white, and blue attire that would make Captain America jealous–are just as outspoken and feisty as they seem in their male dating advice videos that have garnered more than 66 million views to date.
Before I had a chance to ask the second query on my list of carefully planned questions, The Wing Girls had already answered a majority of them in a rapid-fire whirlwind of a first answer.
“They could say ‘I don’t know you, I think you’re gorgeous, let’s go for coffee.’ She could reject or accept it, but if they don’t ask, they’re rejecting themselves first.
I’m trying to teach them to be strong individuals, to ask for and get what they want rather than spending eight years pining for this one girl they watch from a distance.” At times her book hedges towards the more manipulative work of her friend, Neil Strauss, and his infamous book, The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists.
After working with thousands of men all around the world, I have found that the common issue holding men back with women is that "thing" on top of their shoulders.
Here are six secrets men need to know about women to help them stop that "thing" in their head from destroying their dating life: Women have baggage, too, especially the attractive ones. But I also know it's a tough one for men to swallow.
There are some guys who are so awesome and wonderful,” says the Toronto-born, L.
A.-based relationship coach and author, “but they need skills.” Number one on that list in her book, The Wing Girl Method, is to ask for what you want, because if you don’t ask, you won’t get it.
It sounds eye-rollingly obvious, but according to Kinrys, men are much more insecure than women realize and are far more likely to count themselves out of the game before even playing their cards.